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		<title>What should I wear for non-uniform day?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I came across this topic randomly whilst browsing the net, and I remember having a strong emotional response to this because it brought back some painful memories.</p>
<p>My family was very poor, when I was a kid I used to resort to stealing from my parents in order to buy stuff that all the other kids [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I came across this topic randomly whilst browsing the net, and I remember having a strong emotional response to this because it brought back some painful memories.</p>
<p>My family was very poor, when I was a kid I used to resort to stealing from my parents in order to buy stuff that all the other kids used to get. I would steal money from my parents to buy sweets, football cards, drinks and just general spending money that all the other kids were given by their parents.</p>
<p>I remember hating having to do this, however I felt like I needed to do it because it saved me from the humiliation of having no money to spend, and I hated being one of the poor kids at school.</p>
<p>I used to dread every non-uniform day deep inside, but at the same time I had to show that I hated wearing my uniform and was looking forward to it in order to fit in with peers.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s funny is that I lived in a working class family and most people in school struggled to pay the £1.5o levy to get into school wearing non-uniform. But nobody dare mention the fact that they couldn&#8217;t afford to pay £1.50 to get into school.</p>
<p>So either the kids bunked school or got into school wearing uniform and face humiliation.</p>
<p>I used to enjoy school and couldn&#8217;t afford to pay the levy, so I would find out about non-uniform days and save up in order to get in. Other kids would come into school late which meant that they avoided paying altogether.</p>
<p>Non-uniform days would happen once every couple of months or so, and I had to contend with other issues such as how do I avoid wearing the same clothes which I wore on the last non-uniform day.</p>
<p>Kids are brutaly honest, and would make fun of you.</p>
<p>Looking back in hindsight, I never want to live in such poverty as an adult, and would never wish for this for my children. I&#8217;ll make sure I have plenty of money and my kinds have their basic needs met. Secondly, it&#8217;s funny how much kids care about peer pressure, as an adult I&#8217;ve matured so much and I really do not care what so ever  what other people think of me, however this is not the case of kids.</p>
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