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I need to take close look at what my internal voice is saying to me, and how it is limiting me. I will update this page over the coming few days with updates on what’s going through my head. I use computer procastination as a distraction to get away from the pains of my mind, the [...] I read a forum post, a guy basically wrote a long wided post about why things aren’t going right for him, and basically feeling sorry for himself. I saw the thread and realised that it was relevant for me. I’ve reposted it on here for all to see. You’ve got a real attitude problem [...] OK everyone, saturday afternoon, feeling a bit contemplative, so I thought I’d sit here and write up some reasons/experiences which make me feel proud and happy. I am smart and intelligent I don’t really like rehashing the same stuff over and over again, I don’t like dwelling on the negatives and I really want to post up constructive commentaries, not have to post up more and more negatives. However sometimes dwelling on the negatives are important especially if they keep propping back up over and over again. On [...] I’ve been out Monday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Sunday. Monday Good Salsa class, probably the best dancer in the class, got 4 dances after class. Approached lots of girls myself and got good reactions Wednesday Went on a below par salsa class and was bored out of my mind, gave off a bored vibe [...] After Monday nights great success, I was on a high and stop pushing myself further. My plan was to go out Tuesday night, however I didn’t because at the time I was "feeling tired", this was probably just an excuse as I was worried of having a bad night compared to the previous night. I get this [...] I went out today in order to chat up girls in a loud club, however I found myself facing a lot of difficulty in achieving any twngiable results. I found that I’d struggle a lot to approach, and when I do approach and break the ice, I struggle to hold a good conversation. Maybe this is [...] Just finished pimsleur level 1, feel elated that I finished it, but at the same time realise that there’s a lot more for me to learn. Currently reading a book called intimate connection by david burns, interesting book which an interesting twist on how to pursue love. One of the things it says is that you [...] I’ve been reading a few books on self help for a while now, one of those which has made a big impression on me is Intimate Connection by David Burns, what stood out was the fact that I could relate very much to author of the book who came from an analytical mind, he didn’t [...] |
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